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your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.
Colossians 4:6
Colossians 4 [1.] Masters, give to your servants that which is just and equal, knowing that you also have a Master in heaven.
Colossians 4 [2.] Continue steadfastly in prayer, watching therein with thanksgiving; praying together for us also, that God may open to us a door for the word, to speak the mystery of Christ, for which I am also in bonds; that I may reveal it as I ought to speak. Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time. Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.
Colossians 4 [7.] All my affairs will be made known to you by Tychicus, the beloved brother, faithful servant, and fellow bondservant in the Lord. I am sending him to you for this very purpose, that he may know your circumstances and comfort your hearts, together with Onesimus, the faithful and beloved brother, who is one of you.
Meaning:
This verse offers timeless wisdom on the power and responsibility of our words. As we reflect on this, we can explore the deeper meaning behind Paul’s exhortation to the Colossians and consider how it applies to our lives today, especially in how we communicate with others.
- The Call to Grace-Filled Speech
"Let your speech always be with grace":
Grace-filled speech is a hallmark of a Christ-centered life. To speak with grace means to communicate in a way that reflects the character of Christ—loving, kind, patient, and understanding. It’s about letting the Holy Spirit guide our words so that they are life-giving rather than harmful. Ephesians 4:29 echoes this sentiment: "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up, as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." When our speech is filled with grace, it reflects the grace we ourselves have received from God. It’s an expression of the love and mercy that God has shown us, and it becomes a way to extend that same grace to others.
- Consistent in Grace:
Paul uses the word "always" to emphasize that this isn’t just about speaking graciously when it’s easy or when we feel like it. It’s a consistent practice, a way of life. We are to speak with grace in every situation, whether we are dealing with friends, family, coworkers, or even those who oppose us. This consistency is crucial because our words have the power to either draw people closer to Christ or push them away. James 3:9-10 reminds us of the potential for our words to bless or curse: "With it we bless our God and Father, and with it we curse men, who are made in the image of God. Out of the same mouth comes blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so." To speak with grace consistently is to align our speech with our faith, ensuring that our words reflect the love of Christ in all circumstances.
- Speech Seasoned with Salt
"Seasoned with salt":
Salt has long been valued for its ability to preserve and enhance flavor. In the context of speech, being "seasoned with salt" means that our words should not only be gracious but also wise, thoughtful, and impactful. Salt adds flavor and zest to food, making it more enjoyable. Similarly, our words should add value to conversations, bringing wisdom, insight, and truth. Jesus Himself referred to His followers as "the salt of the earth" in Matthew 5:13, indicating that we are called to influence the world positively, including through our speech. Our conversations should be engaging and edifying, leaving a positive impression on those we interact with.
- Balanced Communication:
However, salt also needs to be used in the right amount. Too little, and it’s ineffective; too much, and it becomes overpowering. This speaks to the balance we need in our communication. Our words should be seasoned—not bland or lacking substance, but also not so harsh or overbearing that they become difficult to accept. Proverbs 15:1 provides a good principle for this balance: "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." The right balance of grace and truth in our speech can lead to effective communication that honors God and respects others.
- Knowing How to Answer Each Person
"That you may know how you ought to answer each one":
This part of the verse highlights the importance of discernment in our communication. Every person is unique, and so are the situations we find ourselves in. What might be an appropriate response in one context may not be suitable in another. By being attuned to the Holy Spirit, we can discern how to respond to different people in a way that meets their needs and points them to Christ. 1 Peter 3:15 encourages us to "always be ready to give an answer to everyone who asks you a reason concerning the hope that is in you," but with "gentleness and respect." Knowing how to answer each person means being sensitive to where they are in their spiritual journey, understanding their concerns, and responding with the wisdom that comes from God.
The Application for Today
- In Our Daily Conversations:
In our everyday lives, whether in personal relationships, at work, or on social media, the way we communicate matters greatly. The words we use can build bridges or create barriers. They can bring healing or cause harm. As followers of Christ, we are called to be intentional about our speech, ensuring that it reflects the grace of God and the wisdom of His Word. We live in a world where words are often used carelessly, leading to misunderstandings, conflicts, and division. By committing to speech that is gracious and seasoned with salt, we stand out as witnesses to the transforming power of Christ in our lives.
- In Times of Conflict:
When tensions arise, and emotions run high, it can be especially challenging to maintain gracious speech. Yet, these are the moments when it is most needed. Proverbs 12:18 warns us that "there is one who speaks rashly like the piercing of a sword, but the tongue of the wise heals." By pausing, praying, and allowing the Holy Spirit to guide our words, we can turn potentially harmful situations into opportunities for peace and reconciliation. Our words can be a powerful tool for healing and restoration when used with grace and wisdom.
Conclusion: Colossians 4:6 calls us to a higher standard in our communication, one that reflects the grace and wisdom of Christ. As we navigate our daily interactions, let us be mindful of the power of our words. May they always be filled with grace, seasoned with salt, and guided by the Holy Spirit, so that we may effectively share the love and truth of Christ with everyone we encounter. This practice not only strengthens our relationships but also serves as a testament to the transforming work of God in our lives.
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PIB Scriptures are derived from the World English Bible